1.尋求意見

    1 ）聊聊男女關(guān)系：

    "I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with
a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman
straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk？"

    "I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking a friend
who had broken up and his girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it？

    "

    女人們總是樂于分享自己對(duì)于男女關(guān)系問(wèn)題的看法，因此這類問(wèn)題是向女孩
發(fā)起談話的好工具。

    2 ）問(wèn)些爭(zhēng)議話題：

    "Who lies more： men or women ？"

    "Is it wrong to break up with a text message？"

    如果你向一群女人拋出這樣的容易引起爭(zhēng)議的話題，那你就可以等著看她們
兩眼放光、嘰嘰喳喳沒完沒了了。

    2.玩笑調(diào)侃

    1 ）適當(dāng)運(yùn)用搭訕語(yǔ)：

    "I play the field ， and it looks like I just hit a home run with
you."

    （順便來(lái)學(xué)兩個(gè)習(xí)語(yǔ)：play the field意為“跟很多人交往，與很多人發(fā)生
感情關(guān)系”；home run是全壘打的意思，引申為大獲全勝，hit a home run就是
說(shuō)“做某事非常成功”。）

    "You're like a dictionary ， you add meaning to my life ！"

    "Do you have a sunburn， or are you always this hot ？"

    “搭訕語(yǔ)”就是那些故意說(shuō)出來(lái)引起異性注意的話，說(shuō)得難聽點(diǎn)有些類似
“泡妞語(yǔ)”，但是運(yùn)用得當(dāng)?shù)脑捯彩前l(fā)起談話的好辦法。當(dāng)然必須注意要讓女孩
知道你是在開玩笑，否則可是很有挑逗的意味，會(huì)被認(rèn)為是在耍流氓噠！

    2 ）輕描淡寫開玩笑：

    "Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside？" （horse boots
：馬護(hù)腿）

    "Nice shoes. They look comfortable."（這句小編不理解的說(shuō)……難道是
指看上去舒服其實(shí)穿著不舒服？求高手解答！）

    "Nice top （上衣）。 My grandma has one."

    輕微地說(shuō)些嘲弄的話可以引起女孩發(fā)笑，之后你就等著被她反擊吧！

    3 ）問(wèn)上一句，"Are you friendly ？" 記得配合上懷疑的眼光。然后，"Good，
I'll talk to you."放心吧，沒有女孩會(huì)對(duì)你說(shuō)“不”的！